i just don't understand where the money is coming from to pay for the goods in the first place. i mean, if she paid through paypal and the seller agreed to meet in person, then that would mean the seller had RECEIVED the money PRIOR to meeting up with her. am i not right? unless the payment was not cleared or received, and the seller decided to go give his/her stuff away anyway. then wouldn't that be the seller's fault? lol i am just confused. cuz if the seller had not received any money, then why would they go meet up with her?

i think i'm missing a point here lol