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Originally Posted by divina1124
...am i the only one that thinks if i would break up with my boyfriend, that ive been with for a long time, id hate the idea of seeing a tatoo of his name or sign on me, ..of course i know that the only way i would break up with my boyfriend would be mutual , not because he cheated, ..i think id be better to see it and remember the happy good times ya know?... or just dont pay attention to me, i like seeing the positive side of everything!!..
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its not that we don't see the positive side.
we r just being realistic. besides, how long have u been going out with yur bf and how old are u? cuz pretend...if a 17 yr old is dating her bf for 3 years...that's still not a long time..it's considered puppy love...when yur still young.
i say jus get yur own sign and he should get his own sign. because regardless, the tattoo...will still remind u of him....even if his sign isn't on yur body.
the strong attitude expressed is not hate towards yur idea...but it's just that we have paternalistic views about it..and r trying to give the best answer to yur situation...i think most of us are thinking about it in regards to long term....but it seems like u r thinking about it just "in the moment"....i hope u understand that the strong attitudes expressed weren't meant to be negative.
just remember, you'll get other bfs in yur life...
and u always have to account for variable change in yur relationship with yur current bf.