5'6 .. not sure if i want to be taller or shorter..

i jsut feel like a giant agianst peitite asian girls at pacific mall. but i feel the right size with my other friends... HRM and my bf ain't that tall.. 5'9? so i'm not permitted high shoes... =(

Speaking of which, any hot mama shoes for a black halter knee length dress for a wedding? Can't be over 3 inches.. or else someone will be mad..