hey xxbaby, yes i was talkin about you!
i know what you mean.. i'm not the type of person to go and talk to someone i usually let things happen themselves, but with her in a way i just wanted to know friends or not friends, b/c it came to a point where i thought i was just wasting my time. so i wanted the whole thing to be concluded.. if you dont want to talk to her about it then, thats fine, i just think it may get worse.. with me, she was acting like that for almost a year, it got worse and worse... and then recently it came to a point where i was like okkkk what is going on?? she would call me her bff on msn, and then the rest of the time its like we didnt know eachother anymore. so i needed to know like what was going on.. in the sense that are we friends are not..
i think if i dont want to talk about it.. just let her be the way she is.. move on with your own life.. in my opinion i think you should say something as a joke.. like <> say something jokingly.. and then maybe she'll say like oh this guy blah blah..... or you know wat, it could just be some guy bugging her and then she put up in a relationship so he backs off.. i mean you never know!! (i knew a girl who did that!)
but if she continues on not being the bff and not telling you stuff like she used to and ignore you..., then maybe u two are not supposed to be bff's and you'll find other friends, to fill in the gap...
let me know how it goes.