fat even if you're small

bombshell · 01-23-2008, 10:46 PM

I'm not too sure if it belongs in this forum or the health and fitness one.

Anyways, I am a size 24 in jeans at Guess and I am about 5'1 or 5'2 and 115lbs. I usually wear small size clothing as well too.

When I went shopping i tried on those kind of summery dresses that you dont wear anything underneath. Uusally they are a bit above the knee. But whenever I looked in the mirror I always feel that I look stubby and my legs look horribe. I can never wear a dress without something underneath (ie. leggings)

Does anyone else have the same problem? Any suggestions? I was thinking that maybe those high top sandals would make it look a bit better. I don't think it's because I am fat, but it sure makes me look that way...

I feel my legs looks like a chicken drumstick!

xxk1nky · 01-23-2008, 10:58 PM

i'm the same way!!! i inherited laaarge, large calves from my dad so naturally, i can't wear knee-length dresses because it just highlights my legs and that's NOT what i want people to be focusing on.

it's probably the cut of the dress that's the problem. it can be a challenge finding which dress or what pieces of clothing suits your body and your style. but you're not the only one!

bombshell · 01-23-2008, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by xxk1nky

i'm the same way!!! i inherited laaarge, large calves from my dad so naturally, i can't wear knee-length dresses because it just highlights my legs and that's NOT what i want people to be focusing on.

it's probably the cut of the dress that's the problem. it can be a challenge finding which dress or what pieces of clothing suits your body and your style. but you're not the only one!

good to know i'm not the only one =) but seriously i cannot find one that fits good. I guess I don't know what to look for. Like does it have to be shorter so your legs look longer? or should it be longer so it covers the thick part?

mArie · 01-23-2008, 11:09 PM

I'm on the same boat as you two too! I find that the shorter the dress, the longer your legs look. For me, I cannot wear anything below the knee. If it's right above the knee, the dress has to be fitted and not puffy, otherwise I'd look like a stump with puffs.

xxk1nky · 01-23-2008, 11:16 PM

exactly!!! i wear mini dresses or ones that end like RIGHT after the bulky part on my calf. there's no inbetween dresses :(

diandian · 01-23-2008, 11:19 PM

hm my friend has the same problem, but shes not "fat"
she always looks nice in a short, floweee type of dress w/ leggings
oh and dark colors always make you look slimmer and taller!

mArie · 01-23-2008, 11:19 PM

Yeah I know, and it doesn't help when you're short either. All of the dresses I own are short and tight lol. But there are so many nice ones that I can't wear. Maybe long, fitted cocktail dresses would make you look taller and it covers the legs.

andrixa · 01-23-2008, 11:22 PM

omg i have the same problem... :<

cept im a little bit bigger haha amedium or small i am.. and im 5'1 but i have a huge problem with my freaking calves that are freaking fat... and sometimes i have problem with the way dresses look and sometimes i have a problem with boots cause i cant zip them up... stupid calves..!

bombshell · 01-23-2008, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by mArie

Maybe long, fitted cocktail dresses would make you look taller and it covers the legs.

yeah i dont have problems with evening dresses, but i'm thinking more of the summer "short" dresses

jennifer m · 01-23-2008, 11:46 PM

You sound about my size. I'm a 25 in jeans and I'm 5'1 and a half...and I'm about 5 - 7 pounds lighter than you. You're not fat at all, what are you talking about? :)

As for dresses, I think just always opt for something that appears short. Long tops might work, too. And yes, black tights always slim your leg down...but it's almost spring hahaha.

sw33tsmil3s · 01-23-2008, 11:56 PM

lol bombshell..were like same size! i don't feel self conscious at all when i wear dresses...but never wear anything that stops at your calves...cuz your legs look flat, period

xxk1nky · 01-23-2008, 11:57 PM

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Originally Posted by bombshell

yeah i dont have problems with evening dresses, but i'm thinking more of the summer "short" dresses

YEAH! i get so jealous of everyone because there are so many CUTE dresses but they just unfortunately do not work for me at all... *sigh*

kerlerfer · 01-24-2008, 02:53 AM

Dress right for your leg type

No matter what your leg shape, here's great advice on showing them off to maximum advantage!

The golden rule
There is a simple rule here that applies to all legs, whether they're long, short, fat or thin. Never and we mean NEVER cut a trouser or skirt through the fattest part of your leg. This means don't buy skirts, shorts or trousers that end mid thigh, mid knee or mid calf. Trust me, it will make you look fatter. Above or below the three mid points is the golden rule.

Short and thick legs
You'll find the simple things make all the difference. For starters make sure your tops don't reach past your hips, and that they don't end on your hips. This will only make you look shorter and wider. Check that the rise (the space between the crotch and the waistband) is not long or baggy, and try hipster trousers as they may fit better. Avoid baggy trousers since this often gives a boxy look. Do wear dark plain colours as this will give a slimming illusion and don't buy anything with horizontal lines. Skirts and crop trousers shouldn't be longer than below the knee. And of course, don't forget every girl's friend, the stiletto for adding instant height. If you can't walk in high heels, at least go for a kitten heel.

Long thick legs
Avoid capri pants as, these will make your legs look even longer and wider. Leggings are a no no. Bootleg and flared trousers will balance your proportions and a good pair of flat-fronted wide-legged trousers will look brilliant on your pins. Open-toe sandals and wedges will give a slimming effect and make sure the heel on your shoe isn't too delicate as this will fight against you. Look for more of a stacked or thicker heel. A-line skirts in big bold prints are still looking fresh so grab one now! Again, the obvious answer: wear dark colours on your lower half. But try to get some detail on them, perhaps some funky brooches on back pockets - just make sure they are big or they will be lost!

aznxbabii · 01-24-2008, 12:56 PM

I'm 110 pounds and I'm a size 27... how does that work out? =S

Tigerette · 01-24-2008, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by aznxbabii

I'm 110 pounds and I'm a size 27... how does that work out? =S

Different muscle to fat ratio. For instance, I'm 4'10" and size 25 (pretty tiny overall) but I'm 115lbs. It's just that I have a lot of muscle.

aznxbabii · 01-24-2008, 01:35 PM

Serious? I play tennis and have ample amounts of muscle... I don't like being size 27 pants... and skinnies never fit over my calves =S Summer dresses that go mid-calf, mid-knee, or down to the knees are so awful on petite people.

01-23-2008, 10:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
bombshell Mallvibes Elite Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: vancouver POSTS: 3,147 Thanks: 7 Thanked 51 Times in 47 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 2	fat even if you're small I'm not too sure if it belongs in this forum or the health and fitness one. Anyways, I am a size 24 in jeans at Guess and I am about 5'1 or 5'2 and 115lbs. I usually wear small size clothing as well too. When I went shopping i tried on those kind of summery dresses that you dont wear anything underneath. Uusally they are a bit above the knee. But whenever I looked in the mirror I always feel that I look stubby and my legs look horribe. I can never wear a dress without something underneath (ie. leggings) Does anyone else have the same problem? Any suggestions? I was thinking that maybe those high top sandals would make it look a bit better. I don't think it's because I am fat, but it sure makes me look that way... I feel my legs looks like a chicken drumstick! Last edited by bombshell : 01-23-2008 at 10:53 PM.

01-23-2008, 10:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
xxk1nky Mallvibes Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: BURNABY POSTS: 1,277 Thanks: 16 Thanked 27 Times in 25 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small i'm the same way!!! i inherited laaarge, large calves from my dad so naturally, i can't wear knee-length dresses because it just highlights my legs and that's NOT what i want people to be focusing on. it's probably the cut of the dress that's the problem. it can be a challenge finding which dress or what pieces of clothing suits your body and your style. but you're not the only one!

01-23-2008, 11:09 PM	#4 (permalink)
mArie Mallvibes Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Vancouver POSTS: 599 Thanks: 5 Thanked 15 Times in 14 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 3	Re: fat even if you're small I'm on the same boat as you two too! I find that the shorter the dress, the longer your legs look. For me, I cannot wear anything below the knee. If it's right above the knee, the dress has to be fitted and not puffy, otherwise I'd look like a stump with puffs. __________________ CHECK OUT THE LINK FOR SOME CHEAP BUYS! http://www.mallvibes.com/sale/7005-new-sale-f21-tops-coach-bags.html

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xxk1nky Mallvibes Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: BURNABY POSTS: 1,277 Thanks: 16 Thanked 27 Times in 25 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small exactly!!! i wear mini dresses or ones that end like RIGHT after the bulky part on my calf. there's no inbetween dresses :(

01-23-2008, 11:19 PM	#6 (permalink)
diandian Mallvibes Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: bby POSTS: 459 Thanks: 15 Thanked 5 Times in 5 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 4	Re: fat even if you're small hm my friend has the same problem, but shes not "fat" she always looks nice in a short, floweee type of dress w/ leggings oh and dark colors always make you look slimmer and taller!

01-23-2008, 11:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
mArie Mallvibes Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Vancouver POSTS: 599 Thanks: 5 Thanked 15 Times in 14 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 3	Re: fat even if you're small Yeah I know, and it doesn't help when you're short either. All of the dresses I own are short and tight lol. But there are so many nice ones that I can't wear. Maybe long, fitted cocktail dresses would make you look taller and it covers the legs. __________________ CHECK OUT THE LINK FOR SOME CHEAP BUYS! http://www.mallvibes.com/showthread.php?t=7005

01-23-2008, 11:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
andrixa Mallvibes Member Penguin Flight Champion! Scramble! Champion! Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Vancouver, BC POSTS: 301 Thanks: 3 Thanked 19 Times in 13 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small omg i have the same problem... :< cept im a little bit bigger haha amedium or small i am.. and im 5'1 but i have a huge problem with my freaking calves that are freaking fat... and sometimes i have problem with the way dresses look and sometimes i have a problem with boots cause i cant zip them up... stupid calves..!

01-23-2008, 11:46 PM	#10 (permalink)
jennifer m Mallvibes Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Vancouver BC POSTS: 716 Thanks: 28 Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small You sound about my size. I'm a 25 in jeans and I'm 5'1 and a half...and I'm about 5 - 7 pounds lighter than you. You're not fat at all, what are you talking about? :) As for dresses, I think just always opt for something that appears short. Long tops might work, too. And yes, black tights always slim your leg down...but it's almost spring hahaha.

01-23-2008, 11:56 PM	#11 (permalink)
sw33tsmil3s Mallvibes Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Vancouver POSTS: 2,182 Thanks: 16 Thanked 76 Times in 54 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 1	Re: fat even if you're small lol bombshell..were like same size! i don't feel self conscious at all when i wear dresses...but never wear anything that stops at your calves...cuz your legs look flat, period __________________ SELLING: TNA WORKPANTS $20, PUMA $25, CHANEL PERFUMES AND MUCH MORE!http://www.mallvibes.com/sale/3262-u...-perfumes.html

01-24-2008, 02:53 AM	#13 (permalink)
kerlerfer Mallvibes Member Join Date: Mar 2006 POSTS: 169 Thanks: 5 Thanked 15 Times in 7 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small Dress right for your leg type No matter what your leg shape, here's great advice on showing them off to maximum advantage! The golden rule There is a simple rule here that applies to all legs, whether they're long, short, fat or thin. Never and we mean NEVER cut a trouser or skirt through the fattest part of your leg. This means don't buy skirts, shorts or trousers that end mid thigh, mid knee or mid calf. Trust me, it will make you look fatter. Above or below the three mid points is the golden rule. Short and thick legs You'll find the simple things make all the difference. For starters make sure your tops don't reach past your hips, and that they don't end on your hips. This will only make you look shorter and wider. Check that the rise (the space between the crotch and the waistband) is not long or baggy, and try hipster trousers as they may fit better. Avoid baggy trousers since this often gives a boxy look. Do wear dark plain colours as this will give a slimming illusion and don't buy anything with horizontal lines. Skirts and crop trousers shouldn't be longer than below the knee. And of course, don't forget every girl's friend, the stiletto for adding instant height. If you can't walk in high heels, at least go for a kitten heel. Long thick legs Avoid capri pants as, these will make your legs look even longer and wider. Leggings are a no no. Bootleg and flared trousers will balance your proportions and a good pair of flat-fronted wide-legged trousers will look brilliant on your pins. Open-toe sandals and wedges will give a slimming effect and make sure the heel on your shoe isn't too delicate as this will fight against you. Look for more of a stacked or thicker heel. A-line skirts in big bold prints are still looking fresh so grab one now! Again, the obvious answer: wear dark colours on your lower half. But try to get some detail on them, perhaps some funky brooches on back pockets - just make sure they are big or they will be lost!

01-24-2008, 12:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
aznxbabii Mallvibes Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: vancouver POSTS: 230 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small I'm 110 pounds and I'm a size 27... how does that work out? =S

01-24-2008, 01:35 PM	#16 (permalink)
aznxbabii Mallvibes Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: vancouver POSTS: 230 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Buy/Sell Rating: 0	Re: fat even if you're small Serious? I play tennis and have ample amounts of muscle... I don't like being size 27 pants... and skinnies never fit over my calves =S Summer dresses that go mid-calf, mid-knee, or down to the knees are so awful on petite people.