Relationship where only one person likes to party/go clubbing.

Any stories/experiences with relationships where one SO likes to party/club and the other doesn't?

yeah,

we split. got sick of the late calls asking for a ride when i had work in the AM and then bitched at if i said no.

been there.. my ex was like that, lots of partying and drinking getting down with the boys.. given i like it sometimes once in a blue moon.. he just did it way too much for me, ended up breaking up because it seemed like all he cared about was drinking and partying.. tired of having him during the hang overs and too tired to spend time with me that wasnt at a party.

My gf used to be the heavy partying/clubbing/drinking type. Now I'm the one always asking to go.

A healthy way is always compromise. To some, going to clubs/parties would be the same as watching hockey or playing sports for others. Many of us wouldn't mind going to watch the Canucks or the opera if it pleases your partner, so there isn't any reason why you shouldn't join them to other night life scenes, assuming it's all within moderation.

I enjoy going out to clubs (albeit I don't go very often at all), and my bf hates it. He just never goes, and comes to pick me up if I go lol.
But he always tells me not to get drunk, etc etc. I'm pretty responsible and know my limits, don't flirt/dance with other guys, etc. so we don't really have any problems there.

haha, i wish the person im into was like you

Things may change if you two ever get involved in a serious relationship!

thanks lol. but right now she is into partying and not me =(

My ex enjoyed clubbing from time to time. That is why he was my ex.

Luckily, my SO gave up clubbing soon after we met.

I feel like it's really dependent on the couple, I'm not saying everyone here who aren't in a relationship because their ex went clubbing too much are wrong. Sometimes, one person in the relationship doesn't enjoy clubbing or has clubbed out too much lolz and are fine with their S.O. clubbing. I think trust is a really big issue, trusting that your S.O. won't grind up against guys ...aside from trust, I think it's also a matter of respect.

If you're PTFO in downtown and your bf lives in Coquitlam, calm the eff down and taxi it or BE RESPONSIBLE AND MAKE ARRANGMENTS BEFOREHAND. If you're going to be drinking, deal with it like an adult, not whine and complain that so and so wasn't there to take you home. If you're clubbing without your S.O., deal with your hangover without your S.O.

If both sides are responsible and have trust in each other then it works out. Like, if I'm clubbing...and my poor bf has to teach class the next day, I'm not going to call him up and be like I'M DRUNK. No, before I go clubbing I'd think of how I'm going to get home before I go PTFO.

/end rant ish lolz.

Totally agree with joxxy.

I stopped partying, drinking, blazing, etc. for my current boyfriend :$

jusy wondering, why did you stop? was it because he asked you, or did you do it voluntarily?

He asked me to :s